About
Hi my name is brandi i live in bethany, oklahoma. i was born in mission viejo, ca. and raised in chehalis, Wa. I'm married to an amazing woman with 2 great kids. My family and friends mean the world to me and I would do anything for them.
Education
- ATI automotive
- W.F.West High School
- W.F.West High School
Favorite saying
- "“You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect – you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break – her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.”
- Bob Marley
“Love is a temporary madness; it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of eternal passion. That is just being in love, which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Those that truly love have roots that grow towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossoms have fallen from their branches, they find that they are one tree and not two.” ~Louis de Bernieres
"One thing i do know about intimacy is that there are cerain natural laws which govern the sexual experience of two people, and that these laws cannot be budged anymore than gravity can be negotiated with. To feel physically comfortable with someone else's body is not a decision you can make. It has very little to do with how two people think or act or talk or even look. The mysterious magnet is either there, buried somewhere deep behind the sternum, or it is not. When it isnt there, you can no more force it to exist than a surgeon can force a patients body to accept a kidney from the wrong donor."
"There comes a point where you just love someone. Not because they're good, or bad, or anything really. You just love them. It doesn't mean you'll be together forever. It doesn't mean you won't hurt each other. It just means you love them. Sometimes in spite of who they are. And you know that they love you, sometimes because of who you are, and sometimes in spite of it."
"I love you' means that i accept you for the person that you are, and that i do not wish to cange you into someone else. It means that i do not expect perfection from you, just as you do not expect it form me. it means that i will love you and stand by you even through the worst of times. It means loving you when you're in a bad mood or too tired to do the things i want to do. It means loving you when you're down, not just when you're fun to be with. 'I love you' means that I know your deepest secrets and do not judge you for them, asking in return only that you do not judge me for mine. It means that i care enough to fight for what we have and that i love enough not to let go. It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly, hoping that you feel the same way for me.""