About

it's a brand new year and I am so focused on improving myself from the inside out. I have experienced several life changing events in my life during the last 6 or 7 years...my 23 year marriage ended in 2004, I lost my mom in July of 2005, and then my older brother 6 weeks later, then in March of 2006 my ex-husband passed away and raising my son on my own has been so hard....I so wish things could have been different for him...since then I have spent too much time worrying about things I cannot control, blaming myself for things that I realize now that were not my fault, regretting mistakes & second guessing decisions made. Realizing now that the only person I have been hurting is myself I now choose to let go and move on from the pain, anger and negativity I have held inside because life is too short so bring it on 2012....I am ready! "You cannot intimidate me, you will not break me. I will be one step ahead of you, and I will finish strong."

Favorite saying

• "Fitness comes from the inside out. Change your mind; then change your body" . Life is too short to wait for "SOMEDAY" A big part of who I am is just the way I was raised. Nobody is better than anyone else, and if you really work hard, you might get lucky and get what you want. Is single and youre gonna have to be pretty amazing to change that!! Life is about improving yourself and overcoming obstacles. You WILL have obstacles. You WILL have people who bring you down. Don't be the victim!"